– COUPLES AND RELATIONAL THERAPY IN CALIFORNIA

services

Couples
Therapy

Welcoming all couples navigating ongoing challenges, especially those arising from differing perspectives, histories, needs, attachments, or personalities. Together, we’ll uncover and transform unhelpful patterns, repair what’s needed, remove barriers to intimacy, and foster a more fulfilling connection. I’m dedicated to guiding you toward renewed relationships with both yourself and your partner(s).

Couples
Intensives

While weekly sessions provide steady, thoughtful support, some couples occasionally choose extended, focused sessions when they want to dive more deeply into a particular issue or transition. I offer extended sessions (typically 3-6 hours over 2-3 meetings) to create space to slow down and address important patterns or conversations in a more spacious, intentional way. This compassionate, action-focused format leaves couples with greater clarity, deeper understanding, and concrete next steps.

Premarital Counseling & Relationship Transitions

Supporting couples preparing for major life changes and looking to stay connected. Sessions focus on strengthening your relationship while navigating external stressors and uncertainties, and co-creating a shared understanding of relational dynamics, values, expectations, differences, and long-term goals for your chosen family.

Therapy for
Co-parents

Parenthood comes with a profound range of emotions and experiences, like moments of immense joy and love to feelings of guilt, doubt, and regret. Many parents are also navigating complex life transitions, demanding careers, and the pressures that come with significant responsibility. I specialize in parent work, including couples navigating new parenthood, co-parenting through separation or across households, parents supporting children through challenges, and families looking to strengthen overall connection. The work can include just the caregivers, one parent/one child, or the whole village.

Individuals

Whether you have specific relational needs or a general sense of disconnection, trusting yourself and considering therapy will be invaluable. As a strengths-based therapist,
I believe in personalized approaches, with trauma-informed relational therapy at the core of our time together. Healing and growth occur when our authentic selves are witnessed and wholeheartedly embraced by others. Come as you are, and together, we’ll explore what already resides within you.

Other ways to be healthful?

If you have specific inquiries or project-based needs around mental and relational health, please contact me to discuss how my expertise, background, style, and skills can support your goals. My work spans across California, including the San Francisco Bay Area, Oakland, Berkeley, Walnut Creek, and surrounding communities.

Relational dynamics we explore

Recurring conflict
understanding your dance,
accepting influence, repair

Communication patterns
empathy, nonverbal awareness,
firm but kind expression

Emotional disconnection
feeling stuck, restoring hope,
finding each other again

Intimacy & closeness
emotional, sexual, spiritual

Trust & secrecy
honesty, accountability,
rebuilding trust

Parenting & co-parenting
kids of all ages, shared responsibility,
family transitions

Identity & personal growth
values, boundaries,
relational needs

Emotional awareness
mind/body connection,
allowing emotions, compassion

Shared meaning
purpose, teamwork,
life transitions

Relational trauma
complex trauma, grief,
generational patterns

Twins & siblings
identity development,
differentiation, lifelong bonds

Challenging relational biases
sexism, racism, ableism,
homophobia, transphobia



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